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Anyone who has been following me knows that one of my FAVORITE reads is the Subtle Art of Not Giving AF. It gave me an entirely new outlook on that phrase. I know some of you may be thinking, "how are you going to be successful if you don't care." See, the part of this phrase that is unspoken is not giving a f*** about anything that doesn't beneficially add to your life.
I know some people think that this attitude is negative, but I am going to share exactly why this mindset is KEY to your success and overall happiness.
The Best Reasons Not To Give A F***
It saves you time on BS
My favorite thing about just not giving a damn is that I won't be tempted to waste my time on things and people that aren't benefiting my life and/or are just straight up full of s***.
Promotes confidence
Something about just not giving a f*** about things and people that don't matter is freeing. This promotes a level of confidence because the things leftover that are worth caring about make you feel good and positive or motivated.
The people around you are more likely to like you for you
This phrase basically means being more openly yourself and not allowing things that don't promote positive vibes around you. When you have such clear boundaries than the people who are around you are more likely to genuinely love you.
You won't settle
Never settling means setting yourself up for greater things.
Just feels good
As I said earlier, it is freeing to just not give AF. You don't waste energy and that in itself feels amazing.
As crude as it sounds, not giving af is actually a very positive thing to do.
So, you finna stop giving AF or what?