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How To Get Comfy In Your Own Skin

Self confidence is key to success and there is nothing that I believe more. It is so important to believe in yourself and be comfortable with who you are because that gains the attention of the right kind of people.

Insecurity sucks.. and trust me.. I have been there. So here are some ways to love yourself and TRULY get comfortable in your own skin.


Take care of yourself

I mean this in every aspect of the word. Physically, mentally, emotionally. Do NOT ignore your personal needs trying to be everything for everybody. I know from personal experience that it can dampen your self confidence.

Take time to learn about you

The more you learn about yourself, the more confident you can be in who you are. Spend some time with you. Discover your likes and dislikes. Try new things and discover hidden talents you may not have known you have. You'll be surprised how many things you find you are passionate about.

Distance yourself from people and things that make you feel bad

This one is POWERFUL. Your environment is key to your growth in all things. You cannot bloom if you are being scorched by something or someone who makes you feel negatively about yourself. Sometimes that isn't because someone is a bad person that you need to distance yourself. Sometimes it is simply that who they are or things they do makes you feel inferior and you need to spend more time loving on yourself before you can be around that kind of strong energy.

Accept yourself as someone who isn't perfect

Reality check: THERE WILL ALWAYS BE SOMETHING ABOUT YOURSELF THAT YOU DON'T LIKE. There are SEVERAL things about myself that I am not crazy about. However, I love me some me because I know that I may be imperfect but so is EVERYONE, but there are amazing things about me that others do not possess and that is what I choose to focus on. So just accept your imperfections and recognize that those things make who you are and without them, your gifts wouldn't exist either because there is no perfect person on the planet.

Find accessories and clothes that fit you

When you wear things that express who you are and how you feel, you feel so much better about walking around in it because you are letting some of the best parts of you out. Start experimenting with what you wear and pay close attention to what you feel good in, And no matter what, WEAR THAT.

I really wish self love and confidence on everyone. What tip are you going to try?